In a recent article by Melanie Glover for the Associated Press, the Headline reads “Teens casually cuss a bluer streak than ever, Can they stop themselves?”
Teenagers are more likely today to use profanity as fillers in their conversations than teenagers in the past. If you’ve walked by a group of teenagers lately in the mall, at the movies, or even at church, chances are you’ll hear something that will either make you blush, or turn your head in disbelief. It’s called “conversational swearing”. No longer are these words just used for dire circumstances, the article states that, it is a natural normal part of everyday speech.
Now, I am only a few years removed from my days of youth, give or take 10 – 15 years, and cursing is nothing new. However, had I or my friends been caught cursing, not only would we fear lightning bolts from the heavens, but the consequences from our parents (usually on our hind ends!).
I believe that this is the reason that cursing is so “accepted” today. Parents either don’t care that their children sound like sailors (sailors always get a bad rap) or their scared to stand up to their children. Furthermore there are no consequences for this type of behavior.
However, I do agree with the article when it encourages Parents to teach their children the power of words and their irreversibility.
Ephesians 4:29 says “let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification”.
Where does the responsibility lie? Already I have had to discipline my son for using words that I don’t want him to use, but no doubt he has heard me use. Now I do not curse, but I am guilty of using ‘fillers’ in my speech that have just taken the place of curse words.
The article states that we should teach our children when we should use curse words and when we shouldn’t, but I want to make another appeal… Teach them that cursing is wrong, even if it’s just a word we use in place of a curse word (If necessary use the right hand of fellowship or a paddle). Let our language glorify the One who gave us mouths to speak. When we use language that doesn’t build people up, or represent what we say we believe, what does that make us?
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About Chuck Mullis

I am the husband of Valerie and the father of Russell & Hannah. I am a self-employed contractor living in rural North Carolina as well as an ordained Southern Baptist Minister serving Living Water Baptist Church.

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